Features:
The Heart Center: Approaches
others - Over Does
Original Loss: "I was too needy."
Decision: Being helpful will allow you to survive and be loved.
False Claim: "I have no needs. I only care about yours."
Four Adjectives: Caring and generous, but possessive and manipulative.
Self-image: "I am helpful."
Compulsion: To help. Always giving to others
Avoidance: Their own needs
Sin: Pride
Gift: Caring
One Wing: Help others to perfection
Three Wing: Help other to success
Stress Point: 8 - Bossy Bully, Ruthless Steamroller
Security Point: 4 - Able to acknowledge needs and claim and act on own aspirations
Crossing the River: They never cross because they
are too busy helping others.
Affirmation: "I am willing to receive as well as give love."
Adjectives for High Functioning
Twos
Compassionate |
Sympathetic |
Needed |
Caretaker |
Nurturing |
Caring |
Tender |
Warm |
Helpful |
Concerned |
Giving |
Loving |
Physically Touching |
Feels Others Needs |
Adjectives for
Average Functioning Twos:
Appreciative |
Indispensable |
Complimentary |
Encouraging |
Generous |
People Focused |
Emotional |
Intimate |
Catering |
Affirming |
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Adjectives for Low
Functioning Twos
Manipulative |
Dominating |
Possessive |
Manipulator |
Patronizing |
Repressive |
Effusive |
Prideful |
Flatterer |
Intrusive |
Martyr-Victim-Guilt
Producer |
Famous Examples of Twos:
Mother Theresa, Barbara Bush, Eleanor Roosevelt, Leo
Buscalia, Bill Cosby, Barry Manilow, Lionel Ritchie, Kenny G., Lillian Carter, Martin
Sheen, Robert Fulghum, Jack Paar, Ann Landers, Dr. McCoy (Star Trek), Mr. Rogers
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