|With Chapter Two the
question to consider is, "Have you ever found yourself in exactly the same hole more
- Are you in exactly the same bad relationship (but with a
different person) for the twentieth time? Are you starting to wonder how all of these
jerks find you?
- How is it that you always get into the same type of conflict
with the boss? She is so negative and critical and always expects so much. She makes you
- Maybe you are in the midst of the exact "word for
word" argument with your spouse for the ten thousandth time. He says this and
you say that just like you always do and you fall into the hole once again.
- Your son, mother, sister, or brother does that thing that
they always do. It pushes your buttons and you respond as you always do. The cycle of
conflict begins once again.
You cannot believe that it has happened one more time. You
wonder, "Why does this always happen to me? Why do they always do this to me? When
will they ever stop? Why cant they understand what they make me do?" If other
people would just "act right" life would go better. You begin to work harder and
harder to get others to change.
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